Salt in the water

Wayne Muller, Author of SABBATH and other excellent books, tells of a Tibetan parable that goes something like this: 

If you place a table spoon of salt in a glass of fresh cold water, it will ruin the taste of that water.
If you place the same spoon of salt in a clear mountain lake, you would never be able to taste the difference in the quality of that water. 

The difference, says the parable, is not the salt, but the spaciousness of the container. 

How spacious is the container of my life, my soul? The more spacious our lives and souls, the more room there is for us to fully engage life without having every experience change our story of the day...

Ralph Waldo Emerson called and said it's time to trust your own genius... @ProjectDomino @HOLSTEE

Seth Godin's Domino Project, working with designers of the  Holstee Manifesto Greeting Cards , has published a limited edition copy of Ralph Waldo Emerson's classic, SELF RELIANCE. 

Even though I have a copy in paper and as an e-book, I ordered this new edition today, just because it's so wonderfully put together, with a cover clearly inspired by Holstee's Manifesto card design and inspirational thoughts, such as, "In every work of genius we recognize our own rejected thoughts" presented in large text throughout the book. 

Another reason I ordered it is for my own re-inspiration. I've led a more or less self-invented life as a musician, writer and entrepreneur, especially since leaving the seeming comfort of a corporate GE career to start a web company in 1995, but there is much of my own mind, knowing and gifts that remain under-exposed, unwatered and un-flowered in the world.

This book, more than most slim volumes, inspires me again to trust myself and to nurture solitude and its long-lasting questions, instead of trading the unknown for the supposed solutions of someone else's answers. 

This book, unlike self-help volumes that give us someone else's roadmap, success story and steps to making change, is written in a way that calls us to listen long enough to hear the message, then demands that we stop taking in the thoughts of another, and learn to trust and bloom into the genius each of us has learned to deny. 

This book, and Seth Godin's insistence on shipping our work and remarkable selves into the world, is worth reading and sharing again... 
And now is an ideal time in the world for Emerson's thoughts to stir us again to trust our own. 

 

Check out the Domino Project, the book (only 13 left as I post this) and the cool Holstee card: 

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There's one good dog inside of me...

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What do you think about this?


"There is a Native American parable in which an elder expresses... 'Inside of me there are two dogs, one evil and one good. The evil dog and the good dog fight all the time. Which dog wins? The one I feed the most.' ... Commenting on this, Paul once said to me, 'I don't think I have two dogs, one evil and one good, constantly fighting for dominance inside of me. Instead, I have a good dog within me, but if I do not feed this good dog with empathy, love, and understanding, then it will starve and become extremely vicious. The saint, the murderer, and all people share this inherent goodness, but can descend into cruelty and hatred when denied the stuff of life.' I must say I prefer Paul's view, which brings light to our individual decisions of what to feed to ourselves and each other."

   -- Gavin De Becker, from his the introduction to the book THE END OF WAR, by Paul K. Chappell.

 

Captain Paul K. Chappell, 30 years-old, is a military veteran with an elder's understanding, both of the realities of war and of the necessity and possibility of world peace in our lifetimes. His insights into how we can bring peace to our own lives and our world, and how to befriend one another today in a new conversation about war and peace, is one of the most valuable pieces of modern writing about practical community and mutual understanding I've encountered in my life.

 

I just finished his book today, and I so look forward to talking with others who are interested in having a conversation about it and exploring its ideas together.

 

Learn more here: http://www.thesunmagazine.org/issues/424/fighting_with_another_purpose and here: http://www.paulkchappell.com/

 

RBW   4-23-2011

Apple vs. Microsoft: A one act play on words

Apple: "Hey! App Store is our property, Microsoft. You can't use that name". 

Microsoft: "No way. Get a life. App Store is a generic term, like Grocery Store. You can't own simple words like that."

Apple: "Uh, so is WINDOWS… "

(A paraphrased conversation between Apple and Microsoft lawyers, over whether the name APP STORE can be  considered property of Apple.)

http://www.fastcompany.com/1743453/microsoft-app-store-as-generic-as-grocery-...  

App Recommendation: Instantly share text to & from iPhone, iPad, Desktop

Lumen Note: A perfect, simple, real time, cross device scratch pad. 

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Ever want to quickly get a note from your Mac or PC desktop to your phone?
- Quick to-do list
- Phone numbers
- Addresses
- Reminders
- Saved Tweets
- Quick research results
- Links to articles you'd like to read later
- Any text you choose to paste or enter on a screen

I usually email such quick notes or use some other simple utility. This is better.
This is the fastest way to move text to and from your device. Just paste your note into Lumen Note on your on your iPhone, iPad or your personal screen on the Lumen Note site and it will appear on all devices when you need it. In fact, it's instantly transferred, via your current mobile, wired or wifi connection. You can watch the text appear on the screen of one device within a second of entering it on the other. 
$1.99 licenses it for both iPad and iPhone (universal app) and provides your private, password protected web screen for transfer to and from desktop to mobile devices. 
There's a free (Lite) version, too, which includes the web service for one month, but a one time cost of $1.99 gets you the full app and web account, so I think it is well worth it. 

Check it out: www.lumennote.com/

 

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3 ways to work better and prevent data loss

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Dropbox. Evernote. Google Apps. 

You may be using one or all of these already. They've been around a while. 
If not, consider their individual and combined benefits for simplifying your work flow, improving mobile access and offering a near perfect set-up for prevention of data loss. 

We're living in an incredible time. There are so many tools for creating, storing, sharing and otherwise engaging each other and the information world, that it seems a little odd I'd limit myself to these three for this topic. 

There are others I appreciate and use everyday, and I welcome comments and recommendations about your favorites, as well. 
These three, however, represent such a balanced blend of convenience, ease of use and peace of mind that I find myself sharing them more and more with customers, family and friends.

Too often such recommendations come after a hard drive failure, computer theft or other loss has already taken its toll, so the benefit of the referral is bittersweet. 
It would be nice to know how easy and effective these tools are before the loss, so here's a quick recipe for easy, low cost (even free) peace of mind. 

1. Get Dropbox. 
If you don't already use it and are in need of an easy way to protect your files, try it today. Go to www.dropbox.com to sign-up. 

If you know me and would like a referral code, good for an additional free 250MB sign-up bonus, contact me before you join and I'll be happy to send you the referral link. Dropbox is generous with its referral perks. Referring members get an additional 500 MB for each new member referred, up to 16GB. 
Few things online are as free AND as easy as Dropbox. You'll wonder how you got along without it. 

The benefits are many: 
  • Work Flow: Easily share photos and files with others. Share whole directories with others, as if the files are right there on each of your computers. 
  • Mobility: Access your files from any connected computer and actually synchronize files to multiple computers. ALSO: Dropbox is integrated into many iPhone, iPad and other mobile device apps, it's easy to access files anywhere. 
  • Loss Prevention / Peace of Mind: Save up to 2 gigabytes of any data online, free. Get more space at a low cost. Never lose a file to a drive failure or lost/stolen computer. 
2. Get Evernote.
I don't know of any referral perks for Evernote, but don't let that stop you: www.evernote.com
With Evernote, you'll be able to keep all kinds of information organized into tagged notebooks and store it online and on your computer. You can clip web pages, keep a journal, record audio, search text in images, email yourself files and have them saved in the right notebook, automatically... It's an excellent complement to the secure file storage you get with Dropbox. 

Benefits:
  • Work Flow: Organize your surfing, recipes, journals, research files, web-clippings, even audio and other formats. Share notebooks with others, save to and from multiple devices. Take notes in meetings, organize, tag, share and know your work is saved online and on the hard drive. 
  • Mobility: Access your files and notebooks anywhere, Like Dropbox, Evernote is also integrated into many iPhone, iPad and other mobile device apps. You may email yourself any file and automatically index it into the right notebook by adding #notebook-name to the subject line. Record a note or take a picture and send it to Evernote for storage and further processing. 
  • Loss Prevention / Peace of Mind: Saving to Evernote is saving to the web. A free account allows a generous transfer of data per month. A paid account allows more than you're likely to need. You won't have to worry about customer notes, personal files or any other data. Between Dropbox and Evernote, the files you create and retrieve from your computer will never be at risk of accidental loss. 
Evernote's web page offers this pitch: 
REMEMBER EVERYTHING: Save your ideas, things you like, things you hear, and things you see.
ACCESS ANYWHERE: Evernote works with nearly every computer, phone and mobile device out there.
FIND THINGS FAST: Search by keyword, tag or even printed and handwritten text inside images

3. Use Google Apps for your domain-based email
Or at least use gmail (instead of some ISP-based email account).
You'll have robust email, generous storage and an easy way to manage not only email, but also calendar, documents, spreadsheets, presentations, file attachments, chat, blog subscriptions, even voice mail. With Google Apps, you can improve on the already solid Gmail experience by making your domain name your email address, so that you don't have to be SomeName@yahoo.com, hotmail.com, cinci.rr.com, fuse.net, aol.com, you get the idea...

Go to www.google.com/apps to learn more. 

Benefits:
  • Work Flow: Access email, docs, chat, file sharing, calendars, tasks and much more online, any time. Share documents with others, with and without password protection. Quickly create Google sites, forms and other interactive assets. Manage team and family calendars and archive all mail in one place - and do it all on your own domain name. Google's mail is really fast, too. Searching for a message from this morning or three years ago is pretty much the same, quick function. 
  • Mobility: Google mail and most all of the services are accessible anywhere there is a connection and a device, whether a PC, Mac, smart phone or tablet. Google Voice allows you to have a phone number that rings every phone you have, from mobile to home to work or temporary locations. It does lots of other cool stuff, too. 
  • Loss Prevention / Peace of Mind: Save all mail without worry of loss or inability to get to mail that was saved only to a loss or dying hard drive. Your mail is stored in Google's hardened security servers and accessible by you when needed. The Apps for business account provides you with 25GB per box. Google's built-in anti-spam and anti-virus protection is excellent, too. 
My company can help with any of these if you need it, but you're really not likely to need much help. 
All three have a free as well as a paid version and can be set-up without much, if any technical experience, especially Dropbox and Evernote. 

I wouldn't go another day without a dropbox account, if you don't have one already. It's worth the few minutes it will take to get started. 

As I mentioned above, there are so many other great tools, it's hard to limit recommendations to these. I have found these three to be enough, however, to simplify your work, make it easier to be mobile and deliver peace of mind by making it easy to save and access files and email from multiple places. 

BONUS RECOMMENDATION: In case you're already using the top 3, here's another to consider: If you want an easy way to save web pages for easy reading later (including an automatic text version), try www.instapaper.com.
It's my 4th tool of choice, and works well with the others. 

What are your favorite tools for work flow, mobility and loss prevention? 

More Mystery than Map

Blooming and becoming is more mystery than map.

Just as it's said that the map is not the territory, my expectations, plans and perceptions, useful as they can be, are maps, not the mystery of blooming itself.

Children anticipate growing up. They watch and wonder. They model what they see along the way. As a parent, I have my own memories of the journey and I make what I see and remember into maps, formulas, hopes and predictions. For each individual, however, the unfolding itself is all mystery; uncharted and intimate, always new along the way.

In childhood I had no choice but to live into the constant mystery of what I was becoming, but it's true at every age, long past childhood's end. I simply forget, as the riot of transformation slows to a seeming sameness of predictable days, until I encounter the disappointments, diagnoses and discoveries that are not and should not be on my map.

That's the grace and reminder that the map is not the territory of my life. That's when I have the chance to trust again the call of life beyond the limits of the map, back into the unmeasurable, un-mappable moment and whatever is coming next.

A seedling breaks through the soil because it is drawn by the light, not because it is afraid of the dark.

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Or, as once so beautifully written and better said:

"How did the rose ever open its heart and give to this world all its beauty? 
It felt the encouragement of light against its being, otherwise, we will remain too frightened " 

   — Shams-ud-din Muhammad Hafiz  (c. 1320-1389)  Persia

This favorite meditative piece is also a song: 

Several years ago, David Wilcox and Nance Pettit crafted a CD of lovely songs based on this and other sacred poems. 
The album, Out Beyond Ideas, is named for a well known and often quoted poem by Rumi, which includes the line: 
"Out beyond ideas of wrong doing and right doing, there is a field; I'll meet you there." 
My friend Ric Hordinski produced the album here in Cincinnati at Monastery Studio. It's an inspirational and healing collection of music and timeless messages.  

Photo: loverose.jpg courtest of www.unprofound.com

B, for Brian, or at least that's what I meant to write

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In a team email conversation following our Neighborhood Connectors meeting yesterday, my friend Robin asked me about my middle name:

On Wed, Nov 24, 2010 at 12:34 AM, Robin wrote:

Thanks, Randy..... so, what does the "B"in RBW stand for, I wonder? 

I replied:  It's Brian. 

As in: 
Early one week day morning in 1970-something:
"Time to get up for school, Randy."
15 minutes later: "Randy! You'll miss the bus if you don't get up now!"
10 minutes after that: "Randall Brian Weeks! You're going to be late and I am not reminding you again!"

And as in "Brain":

When I was in 2nd grade, I wrote my full name for a while on drawings and other papers we did in class. I thought I was being all grown up and stuff... (yes, nerds and geeks really are born that way, or at least we start out very young). 
I remember being embarrassed when the teacher pointed out with loving humor that I'd been carefully hand-writing "Randall Brain Weeks" all that time, instead of Brian.
-Might be an unconscious reason why most everything I've written in cursive since then looks a little like a doctor's prescription.  :-)

Thanks for asking.

RBW

 

The Web turns 20! - And its inventor says keep it free and open

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20 years ago this month, Tim Berners-Lee invented what has certainly become the most important and democratic technology since the printing press. 


http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=berners-lee-linked-data

In another, related article, Berners-Lee writes that Facebook and other systems that are not 'open' are bad for the web and for society as a whole. That article by Berners-Lee is here: 

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=long-live-the-web



Digital Distraction and the cost of the loss of boredom

           Or, How my brain actually benefits from watching the grass grow...
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Our culture is in the midst of multiple challenges never encountered in the past. That world of the past was one of fewer choices, slower rates of change and limited access to food and information, among other things. 
In today's New York Times, the story Growing Up Digital, Wired for Distraction tells us about the challenges of learning in a world wired for entertainment and constant, instant gratification. It opens with Vishal, a bright 17-year-old with a talent for video production and technology, who hasn't been able to finish his summer reading assignment, the book Cat's Cradle, by Kurt Vonnegut.

He explains that he's only 43 pages into the book (which is already a skinny read, at 186 pages, about half the length of typical novels) because it takes so much longer to get the whole story from a book than from a video.  He explains that "you can get a whole story in six minutes", speaking of his preference for YouTube over books.

The story introduces us to several other students and their struggles with maintaining a desired GPA, studying for the SAT, even staying focused on homework, given the steady flow of text messages and Facebook updates they juggle while trying to read an assignment.

The concern about digital distraction is increasing, not only due to the obvious, real time interruption of attention and learning, but also as a potentially life-long memory and cognitive skill development problem that can affect an entire generation's ability to learn, remember, integrate and make use of learned knowledge and experience.

Digesting food or information: Brains and Bodies require time for processing

The brain uses downtime to process new learning into long term memory and myriad connections with other learning and life experiences unique to each person. So much of what we discover about ourselves and ultimately express in our lives is a product of the connection of ideas, experiences, perceptions, reflections and unconscious elements our brains assemble, link and make available to us in the course of a given day.

Consider the the simple, familiar phenomenon of remembering something or solving a problem shortly (and only) after you've stopped working on it or thinking about it. Without the gap in activity and stimulus, it would often be impossible for the mind to do the work of connecting available information and producing the desired solution, insight or recall.

The loss of boredom is my brain never being able to get a word in edgewise
 
In that respect, boredom is important. It's not that we should want boredom itself. It's that, at least at our current state of evolution, we certainly appear to need the byproducts of what we've called boredom, which include the space, downtime and facility for processing information, just as the body needs rest to process food, repair muscles and renew itself each day. Gym memberships and other intentional exercise made up for the physical activity lost in a transition from agricultural and other strenuous ways of making a living. Creating space for rest and integration will become more intentional acts for many as we recognize the effects of constant input and engagement with no off switch in our lives. 

The challenge of the always on, multi-channel digital world is two-fold: the struggle to limit our engagement and attention to one thing at a time and the lack of space between experiences for processing and conversion of the experience into long term memory and personal meaning.

If I study for a test, then switch to a highly stimulating experience, such as a fast paced movie or video game, the short term memory of the study can be overwritten by the higher stimulus before it can be processed into long term memory during downtime.

Constant consumption of food or information is a problem for any system

Our culture is in the midst of a health crisis caused, in part, by the growth of easy and nearly constant access to calories in the form of fast food, snacks and unmeasured consumption. This challenge of digital distraction is similar to that, in its increasing flow, overwhelming number of options, ease of instant gratification and long term ramifications.

The way through both may be the same, and the key may be our ability to develop and exercise our freedom of choice, choosing not only what to include, but more important, what to exclude, in the consumption of food, entertainment, stimulation and information, then choosing again, to create space and time for processing and meaningful integration of what we've chosen, to craft lives shaped by conscious, instead of constant consumption.

I experience these challenges in my life on both fronts, food and attention, so the post is a personal reflection, for me, on the importance of conscious choice. 

Peter Block speaks often of the importance of being confronted with our freedom. The freedom to choose what kinds of days I'll have and what kinds of life I'll live, the power of choosing what matters as well as what to exclude, in a world made noisy by marketing messages, instead of devaluing choice to the mere selection of options offered to us as consumers... that is the quality of choice I want to practice in my life. 

What choices are you making in your acts of creating a life that benefits from, instead of getting lost in, the abundance of this world? 

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Related reading: Nicholas Carr's recent book, the Shallows, does a good job of looking at this same issue, examining the effect of digital distraction on the long term development of mental abilities and overall quality of life. This story at Wired is an interesting introduction to Carr's work.


 

How We Gather is What Really Matters

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This is the Invitation
To a new conversation
Of depth over speed
Of gift over need
A new Listening…

The structure of how we gather
Speaks of what really matters
Telling a new
Story of who
We are to each other

 - From Invitation, by Randy Weeks

We live in a culture defined, in many ways, by speed. 

We also live in a world in which knowledge, creativity and human capital are more valuable and marketable than at any time in history. The productivity and profits of any endeavor today depend more and more on insight, collaboration, ideas and agility than on documentation, discipline and consistency. Documentation and the others are still valuable, even essential. They are just not enough anymore. 

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Choose to vote

Choose to vote. Let's be citizens tomorrow, not merely consumers. Political ads pervert political process, derailing or discouraging informed choice and ownership of our decisions. I'm ignoring them all and voting my own heart and mind - and I hope you all are, too.
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This year, fewer than 40% of voting age Americans will actually vote. A serious glitch in self-marketing, I think. If you don't vote because you're trying to teach politicians a lesson, you're tragically misguided in your strategy. The very politicians...

Change the Conversation: Change the World: Peter Block at Authentic Leadership Cincinnati

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(originally posted by Michelle Beckham at: http://michellebeckham.wordpress.com)

Authentic Leadership Cincinnati is proud to present best-selling author and speaker, Peter Block at our next event to discuss Community and the Structure of Belonging.  Mr. Block’s seminar will be held on Thursday, November 4th 

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Reflections on Deer Park Community Conversations

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I want to thank everyone who joined us in conversation tonight at the Chamberlin Park Community Center.

We got together as neighbors and talked about the value of identifying and connecting our gifts.  

We talked a little about the difference between identifying gifts and identifying the "gifted", which is the more common practice - identify the gifted in a community and enroll them to share their gifts in service to the community. It's a long practiced and earnest way of engaging people, and it is quite different, we're learning, from identifying the gifts in the community, then connecting those gifts and people and interests to each other. 

It's a much bigger and richer picture we paint with the intention to find and connect the gifts of all the community. 

A FEW GIFTS I RECALL FROM TONIGHT'S CONVERSATION:

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When Peter Block talks about Leadership...

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We're blessed, in Cincinnati, to have Peter Block as a neighbor.
It's a gift to know him and to have such incredible local opportunity to study his work and ideas. 

I was asked recently by friends at Authentic Leadership Cincinnati to write a brief introduction for a talk Peter would be giving to a meeting for their organization. 

An introduction to Peter's work can spread in a number of directions, considering the range of experiences and topics on which he has written, from leadership to stewardship, empowerment and community building. 

I wrote the following notes for Authentic Leadership Cincinnati about what I've learned from Peter's talks on leadership. 

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Deer Park Community Conversation #3: 10/19/2010

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Update for Friends and Neighbors. 
Those who made it out to our conversation last Tuesday said they'd like to continue on a weekly basis for an hour each Tuesday night, from 6:30 to 7:30. I hope you can join us tomorrow night as we continue our neighborhood connections. If you can't make it this week, that's OK! We'll be doing this regularly and hope to see you when you can be with us. Please let me know if you'd like to be on the mailing list - and feel free to pass this along to others and invite them.
One of our most important reasons for getting together is simply to get to know each other better - to explore our gifts and interests, to discover things each of us knows how to do and/or may want to teach or learn from a neighbor. 
An idea behind this gathering for conversation is that we can know and engage the competence of our community by connecting with each other around our gifts, interests and visions of possibility for our neighborhood, instead of focusing only on problem solving. 
Some of the ideas that came up last week:

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Making a distinction between Speed and Action

Thinking about Depth over Speed, I can get a sense of speed as an addiction when action becomes the objective itself instead of movement in service of intention.

There is a famous quotation that calls for commitment and action over hesitation. It is usually attributed to Goethe (although apparently not accurately)  In short and long versions, it is familiar to most of us:

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My Favorite Magazine Article: Fred Rogers: Can You Say Hero?

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I know it seems odd to have a favorite magazine article. Not a favorite magazine, but an actual favorite article.

It's a favorite story about a favorite person... and some of the most enjoyable, meaningful magazine reading, ever.I shared it this evening in email with some friends, based on a conversation we had this week about neighborhoods. Decided to also share it here, with others.

- http://www.pittsburghinwords.org/tom_junod.html

I am reasonably certain this could make your day, maybe your whole week a little brighter... It's such an inspirational article.

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